Hello people!!
i am like suppose to be doing lab report or studying or quiz but i just decided to watch bu bu jing xin, and nap my time away LOL oh well, whats new of me anw right ;P
So i was reading this article on thought catalog titled 10 little first in relationship that let you know you are with the right person. and there is this part that says "The first time you realize that you’re more yourself with this person than anyone else, even your best friend, which then sends you into an identity crisis, because this person has totally accepted you exactly as you are and you didn’t even realize it until you did that weird single person behavior in front of them and they shrugged it off and said, meh, wanna cook dinner?" i was like omg i really so comfortable in front of my stupid pui until i did my weird single person behaviour HAHAH
and then i was looking at my senior (21 yo)who engage to this guy. like the guy didnt hav a bright future, full of tattoos, abit ah beng ah beng kind etc (call me sterotype :/) but its like the truth and even the guy himself say so. If anyone seen this senario, their first thought would be 'shotgun'. well, thats my first thought too since the day they announced they were engage on facebook. until today, a picture of them came on my newsfeed and i started scrolling through all the pictures after clicking in. (me being kaypo) And then i realise, they did not shotgun and in fact the girl dad also objected to them being together. i guess there are really people in the world who gets engage at a young age without any financial support or whatsoever, just because they feels better being engage or what. i still cannot understand why did they do that but the only thing i can see from all the post is that they really love each other. Despite parents objection, they still chose to be together and till this day, love is something that still seems like a mega big word to me. Perhaps, i still cannot understand everything that this big word covers, but i just know that its a really good feeling being in it. :')
my friend shared this video https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=10152379818531989&set=vb.598766988&type=2&theater saying its super sweet. i have to agree its super sweet and before i was attached i always like to look at these kind of videos like the MEME proposal etc and go "awww, wish my future bf will do this too." But being attached now, while looking at these videos, and while i do think its sweet, i realise that as long as you are in love with someone, no matter what they do, no matter how small scale is the proposal, you still will go "awww this the sweetest proposal ever" i guess. There's alot of mindset that you changed after being attached, you don't know why, you don't know how, but it just did.
Day 9: Favourite thing she/he has given you?
hahaha i really love all the things he given me and trust me this is not a politically correct ans because if i really have to pick i would ofcourse say xiaodi. The bear he held at airport and waited for me when i came back from hk. (xiaodi has even since became ah gui's husband and they are the miniature versions of us HAHA) but its really hard to choose because if it was you would you choose a card that he handmade for the first time in his 23 years or life, or a musical globe with two bears looking at snow that all girls always dreamed to hav since young, or a bottle full of stars and bouquet of flowers handfolded till 4am everyday because he had a hard time learning them from youtube and so much more to list. which would you choose? if i can only hold one thing in my hands, the answer would be you. i only want to hold you :P why i so cheeesy HAHA
i am like suppose to be doing lab report or studying or quiz but i just decided to watch bu bu jing xin, and nap my time away LOL oh well, whats new of me anw right ;P
So i was reading this article on thought catalog titled 10 little first in relationship that let you know you are with the right person. and there is this part that says "The first time you realize that you’re more yourself with this person than anyone else, even your best friend, which then sends you into an identity crisis, because this person has totally accepted you exactly as you are and you didn’t even realize it until you did that weird single person behavior in front of them and they shrugged it off and said, meh, wanna cook dinner?" i was like omg i really so comfortable in front of my stupid pui until i did my weird single person behaviour HAHAH
and then i was looking at my senior (21 yo)who engage to this guy. like the guy didnt hav a bright future, full of tattoos, abit ah beng ah beng kind etc (call me sterotype :/) but its like the truth and even the guy himself say so. If anyone seen this senario, their first thought would be 'shotgun'. well, thats my first thought too since the day they announced they were engage on facebook. until today, a picture of them came on my newsfeed and i started scrolling through all the pictures after clicking in. (me being kaypo) And then i realise, they did not shotgun and in fact the girl dad also objected to them being together. i guess there are really people in the world who gets engage at a young age without any financial support or whatsoever, just because they feels better being engage or what. i still cannot understand why did they do that but the only thing i can see from all the post is that they really love each other. Despite parents objection, they still chose to be together and till this day, love is something that still seems like a mega big word to me. Perhaps, i still cannot understand everything that this big word covers, but i just know that its a really good feeling being in it. :')
my friend shared this video https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=10152379818531989&set=vb.598766988&type=2&theater saying its super sweet. i have to agree its super sweet and before i was attached i always like to look at these kind of videos like the MEME proposal etc and go "awww, wish my future bf will do this too." But being attached now, while looking at these videos, and while i do think its sweet, i realise that as long as you are in love with someone, no matter what they do, no matter how small scale is the proposal, you still will go "awww this the sweetest proposal ever" i guess. There's alot of mindset that you changed after being attached, you don't know why, you don't know how, but it just did.
Day 9: Favourite thing she/he has given you?
hahaha i really love all the things he given me and trust me this is not a politically correct ans because if i really have to pick i would ofcourse say xiaodi. The bear he held at airport and waited for me when i came back from hk. (xiaodi has even since became ah gui's husband and they are the miniature versions of us HAHA) but its really hard to choose because if it was you would you choose a card that he handmade for the first time in his 23 years or life, or a musical globe with two bears looking at snow that all girls always dreamed to hav since young, or a bottle full of stars and bouquet of flowers handfolded till 4am everyday because he had a hard time learning them from youtube and so much more to list. which would you choose? if i can only hold one thing in my hands, the answer would be you. i only want to hold you :P why i so cheeesy HAHA
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