Hello everyone! its the first post of 2014 like after almost a month. hahas sorry about it uhhhh. a huge part of me was super busy for the wrong stuff.
So, as I hit my big 2 (sadded), and as somethings went on recently, I decided to come up with my own list of things to stop or start doing in my twenties. hahas you know thr is this article going around something like that
1) Stop being busy for the wrong stuff. I mentioned this at the start of my paragraph and I cannot emphasize how important this is. Be it people or activities you join or whatever. If people aren't going to see your worth, aren't going to feel your importance, then for god sake stop caring. okays to be honest I am telling this to myself and reminded myself over and over again. Stop contributing to those who don't see your value. And seriously stop caring.. guess what does this resemble? a one sided love.. and it aren't goin to bear and fruit.
2) stop making empty promises. fuck you. (pardon my language I hope it will be the first and last time I use this ugly word on my blog) if you guys cant do it, don't promise! this isn't a reminder to myself but rather a lesson learnt from the point of view of a victim, telling me not to make the same mistake to others. I would rather not be promised anything or just tell me straight in the face the cruel fact than to be promised, have my hopes high and boomb- crush in a blink of eyes without any preamble nor account, but merely an explanation or excuse in my pov to tone things down.
3) Stop expecting. this is really something I should stop doing. Stop expecting others to do stuff for you, stop expecting the world to be any less practical. the world is cruel and everyone feeds for themselves. cliché as it sounds, but 希望越高失望越大. this is a practical world, if you are good, you survive. if you aren't, then too bad NO ONE is going to help you. and with regards to expectation, serious, I need to stop. its not a matter of how much you contributed. I know expectations usually increases with the amt of contribution but no. expectations is only goin to make you sadand nth else. the world function this way, take it or leave it.
4) Don't compare your friends with others. love them for who they are and accept them for who they aren't. its all about giving and taking, not directly proportional ofcourse but isn't this what are friends for.
5) be thankful. I am extremely thankful seriously especially nowdays when I am feeling down. Thankful for all the people who came into my life, thankful for all those who haven't leave after so many years. Thankful for those who rmb me and makes me feel that I am important. and lastly, thankful for the him who came into my life, lending me his shoulders to cry on whenever I am sad and taking so gd care of me.
6) this is extremely targeted. I need to stop being sad over the same thing. period. this will be the last time ever I care and let the same thing affects me. its wasting too much of my energy and I need back my life. I need back the happy me and I will hav it back.
yupp that's all for my big 2 resolutions hahah :)
its late but I hav no morning lesson yay! nights everyone
So, as I hit my big 2 (sadded), and as somethings went on recently, I decided to come up with my own list of things to stop or start doing in my twenties. hahas you know thr is this article going around something like that
1) Stop being busy for the wrong stuff. I mentioned this at the start of my paragraph and I cannot emphasize how important this is. Be it people or activities you join or whatever. If people aren't going to see your worth, aren't going to feel your importance, then for god sake stop caring. okays to be honest I am telling this to myself and reminded myself over and over again. Stop contributing to those who don't see your value. And seriously stop caring.. guess what does this resemble? a one sided love.. and it aren't goin to bear and fruit.
2) stop making empty promises. fuck you. (pardon my language I hope it will be the first and last time I use this ugly word on my blog) if you guys cant do it, don't promise! this isn't a reminder to myself but rather a lesson learnt from the point of view of a victim, telling me not to make the same mistake to others. I would rather not be promised anything or just tell me straight in the face the cruel fact than to be promised, have my hopes high and boomb- crush in a blink of eyes without any preamble nor account, but merely an explanation or excuse in my pov to tone things down.
3) Stop expecting. this is really something I should stop doing. Stop expecting others to do stuff for you, stop expecting the world to be any less practical. the world is cruel and everyone feeds for themselves. cliché as it sounds, but 希望越高失望越大. this is a practical world, if you are good, you survive. if you aren't, then too bad NO ONE is going to help you. and with regards to expectation, serious, I need to stop. its not a matter of how much you contributed. I know expectations usually increases with the amt of contribution but no. expectations is only goin to make you sadand nth else. the world function this way, take it or leave it.
4) Don't compare your friends with others. love them for who they are and accept them for who they aren't. its all about giving and taking, not directly proportional ofcourse but isn't this what are friends for.
5) be thankful. I am extremely thankful seriously especially nowdays when I am feeling down. Thankful for all the people who came into my life, thankful for all those who haven't leave after so many years. Thankful for those who rmb me and makes me feel that I am important. and lastly, thankful for the him who came into my life, lending me his shoulders to cry on whenever I am sad and taking so gd care of me.
6) this is extremely targeted. I need to stop being sad over the same thing. period. this will be the last time ever I care and let the same thing affects me. its wasting too much of my energy and I need back my life. I need back the happy me and I will hav it back.
yupp that's all for my big 2 resolutions hahah :)
its late but I hav no morning lesson yay! nights everyone
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