It just take two willing hands to clap
Hello people! its been a really really long time since I last blog.
Because I was trying to keep the upcoming post on my Laos trip but I always couldn't find the motivation to post about it. And today is one of the day I really really feel like posting on my blog. Like out of all the things I am suppose to do, I chose to post on my blog lols
Anw, so my sis showed me this video of her friend bf make for her de video. Then she was commenting like how sweet her bf was. And somehow I came to this thought that everyone often see the good part or the sweet part of any relationship. I mean like you never knows whats behind the scene of what they are presenting to the public. So when I share stories regarding my relationship with the others, its like everyone thinks that I have a very perfect relationship and its cute. But I must admit that thr are times when we are unhappy with something and it all takes effort to make things right. I guess no relationship will be born perfect but it all boils down to how each of the party involve puts in efforts to make it a perfect one.
I may be an ever ever green before this relationship. Its exactly why I feel that I am learning something everyday. I am amazed at the little things I learnt everyday, things that are simple or even common sense but it's just amaze me. Like whenever I see people post sweet stuff on instagram or something, I never thought of how couples have conflicts and all before I was attached. Very often, we would wish that our another half in the future will do something as sweet for us. We dream of this very perfect relationship as we grew older.
Then, becoming attached allows me to see stuff in a different light. You made the realisation that not necessarily only significant gestures like romantic date is considered as romantic. Simple small gestures like hugging, lending you his ears to listen to your rant though its so boring, helping you wipe your tears etc are actually way more romantic than any expensive date. Even acts like holding your hand when crossing the road are really sweet and I really really really appreciated them :')
I once saw this quote "No one is perfect until you fall in love with them." Its true. Its not that you will fail to see their flaws once you love them, its that despite seeing their flaws, you still think they are perfect. Its not about the failure to notice because if it is, once you discovered them, you may not embraces them. Instead, its about knowing exactly what their flaw is, and you still thinks they are the most perfect human being on earth.
More often than not, it just take two willing hands to clap in a relationship
goodnight guys!
Because I was trying to keep the upcoming post on my Laos trip but I always couldn't find the motivation to post about it. And today is one of the day I really really feel like posting on my blog. Like out of all the things I am suppose to do, I chose to post on my blog lols
Anw, so my sis showed me this video of her friend bf make for her de video. Then she was commenting like how sweet her bf was. And somehow I came to this thought that everyone often see the good part or the sweet part of any relationship. I mean like you never knows whats behind the scene of what they are presenting to the public. So when I share stories regarding my relationship with the others, its like everyone thinks that I have a very perfect relationship and its cute. But I must admit that thr are times when we are unhappy with something and it all takes effort to make things right. I guess no relationship will be born perfect but it all boils down to how each of the party involve puts in efforts to make it a perfect one.
I may be an ever ever green before this relationship. Its exactly why I feel that I am learning something everyday. I am amazed at the little things I learnt everyday, things that are simple or even common sense but it's just amaze me. Like whenever I see people post sweet stuff on instagram or something, I never thought of how couples have conflicts and all before I was attached. Very often, we would wish that our another half in the future will do something as sweet for us. We dream of this very perfect relationship as we grew older.
Then, becoming attached allows me to see stuff in a different light. You made the realisation that not necessarily only significant gestures like romantic date is considered as romantic. Simple small gestures like hugging, lending you his ears to listen to your rant though its so boring, helping you wipe your tears etc are actually way more romantic than any expensive date. Even acts like holding your hand when crossing the road are really sweet and I really really really appreciated them :')
I once saw this quote "No one is perfect until you fall in love with them." Its true. Its not that you will fail to see their flaws once you love them, its that despite seeing their flaws, you still think they are perfect. Its not about the failure to notice because if it is, once you discovered them, you may not embraces them. Instead, its about knowing exactly what their flaw is, and you still thinks they are the most perfect human being on earth.
More often than not, it just take two willing hands to clap in a relationship
goodnight guys!
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