Around everyone, there are a lot of friends. Some people called them best friends, others called them best pals. some people grouped them into 3 categories: best friends, normal friends and enemies. However, i grouped them into 2 group: 知心朋友 and 猪朋狗友. Well, although until now, i still do not know the real definition of these two categories, i am still able to categorise some of them.
I had met all sort of people, who named themselves as "friends". i used to think that those who treat you well are those who you can considered as 知心朋友. However, i was proved wrong. For me, i felt that 知心朋友 are only those who will not blame you when something goes wrong, those who will stand by your side when everyone eles doesn't, those who are always to len a helping hand to you when you are in trouble,and also those who are willing to suffer with you no matter what happened. For 猪朋狗友, they only hanged out with you when there is something for them to gain, and when something goes wrong, they are the 1st to run away.
That's the difference between 猪朋狗友 and 知心朋友. Specifically, it is MY definition for the two types.
Well, for some of the things they did, you can tell which type are they under. However sometimes, it's not so easy to tell. Some times, you might thought that they are "this" type, but think that they are the other type another time.
Till now, there are many people who i an not sure where they belong to in my dictionary. they treat you so well at a period, yet sometimes you found out that they are not as perfect as you think.
Well, you may have a different opinion as me, but i welcome all comments. Just leave your little comment on my tagboard if you fell like.^_^

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